Fifteen rules for remaining employed, reasonably sane, and difficult to blame until the train takes you home.
The objective is not promotion. It is not fulfillment. It is not becoming indispensable.
The objective is to remain employed, reasonably sane, and difficult to blame until the train takes you home.
01. Arrive slightly before you are expected
Arriving dramatically early creates expectations. Arriving late creates evidence.
Aim for the narrow zone in which everyone thinks, Yes, he was already here.
02. Never be the first person to leave
You do not necessarily need to work late. You need to understand who notices when you leave.
If your boss is putting on his coat, congratulations: you have suddenly remembered that you also own a coat.
03. Carry something
A folder. A laptop. A notebook. Three pieces of paper.
A person walking quickly while carrying a document is almost universally presumed to have somewhere important to be.
04. Master the serious nod
The salaryman’s most efficient communication technology.
Someone explains a problem you don’t control: nod.
Someone announces an initiative that will disappear in six months: deeper nod.
Someone asks whether you understand: nod while saying, “Hai.”
Do not accidentally volunteer.
05. Learn the difference between responsibility and blame
Responsibility can theoretically produce promotion.
Blame can definitely produce unemployment.
When receiving an important instruction, create a polite written record of what was decided. You are not building a case against your coworkers. You are ensuring that six months from now nobody discovers that everyone remembers the meeting differently.
06. Become adequately useful
Being useless is dangerous.
Being uniquely useful is also dangerous because nobody will ever let you go home.
The ideal salaryman occupies the fertile middle:
“It would be inconvenient if Tanaka weren’t here.”
Not:
“Only Tanaka knows how this works.”
07. Do not finish recurring work suspiciously quickly
A task that takes everyone three hours but takes you 45 minutes does not create 2 hours and 15 minutes of freedom.
It creates another task.
You have discovered one of the fundamental laws of salaried employment.
08. Meetings are weather
You cannot defeat rain by becoming angry at clouds.
Attend. Take notes. Say one useful thing. Determine whether anything has actually been assigned to you.
Then continue living.
09. Understand nomikai
The after-work drinking session is allegedly recreational and occasionally neither.
You don’t have to become the drunkest person in the izakaya. Eat. Participate. Pour drinks when appropriate. Laugh. Learn things.
Most importantly, recognize that the organizational chart becomes unusually honest after the second beer.
10. Protect the commute
The train is not merely transportation. It is the membrane between Corporation You and Actual You.
Music. Manga. Games. Books. Staring into nothingness.
Do not voluntarily convert every commute into additional unpaid work.
11. Take your vacation
A company capable of surviving earthquakes, recessions, executive reorganizations and forty-seven PowerPoint presentations can probably withstand your absence until Tuesday.
Use the days.
12. Have something that isn’t the company
This may be the most important rule.
A family. Basketball. Gardening. Gundam models. A terrible band. Fishing. A neighborhood bar. An obsessive interest in 16th-century maps.
Anything that allows you to answer “Who are you?” without stating your employer.
13. Promotions are optional; survival is cumulative
You do not have to win every year.
Some years you acquire skills. Some years you make money. Some years you encounter an excellent boss. Some years you simply avoid the restructuring.
A 30-year career contains a surprising amount of successfully doing nothing catastrophic.
14. Never confuse corporate urgency with actual emergency
The presentation can be revised tomorrow.
The spreadsheet is not bleeding.
The client will survive until morning.
If everything is always urgent, you are not experiencing urgency. You are experiencing management.
15. Know when survival means leaving
The old salaryman bargain was essentially:
Give us your loyalty and we will give you security.
Modern companies cannot always provide the second half.
If the company stops paying adequately, destroys your health, threatens your family life, or offers neither security nor opportunity, remaining loyal isn’t salaryman stoicism.
It’s just a bad deal.
The Salaryman Survival Creed (承認)
Pin this above your desk.
Show up.
Be useful.
Don’t become indispensable.
Know who actually makes decisions.
Keep receipts.
Take the vacation.
Catch the train.
Go home.
Have a life there.
Repeat until retirement—or a better offer.
Are you in the middle?
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Originally published as Field Notes No. 1 on salaryman.tech.
